Imma share this because it’s surprising how often it comes up.

I love love love Auntie Sparknotes!  And I get so sad when people`s experiences have taught them to feel they can’t say no to stuff that they’re not comfortable with, that is painful, or that they just plain don’t like or don’t feel like at the time.  THANK YOU Auntie Sparknotes for addressing this so clearly and constructively!

Content advisory:  the article below discusses sex.  Reader discretion is advised.